How Unpaid Carers Can Avoid Burnout: 5 Practical Tips

Caring for a loved one without pay is a massive job—over 5 million people do it every day. Unpaid carers, whether looking after a parent, partner, or mate, often hit burnout: that bone-tired, frayed-nerves feeling. If that’s you, you’re not on your own. Here are five down-to-earth tips to dodge burnout and keep your strength up.


1. Draw a Line with Kindness

It’s tempting to take on everything, but you can’t. Pick what you can manage—maybe daily calls but not round-the-clock care—and say it gently: “I love helping, but I need a breather too.”

Tip: Scribble your limits down to stay on track.


2. Tap Into Local Help

Councils offer free Carer’s Assessments to unlock respite or advice, and there are charities and NHS bits to lean on too.

Tip: Ring your local council or search “carer support followed by your town.”


  • - Cambridgeshire: Caring Together runs support and respite (caringtogether.org).
  • - Hertfordshire: Carers in Hertfordshire has hubs and helplines (carersinherts.org.uk).
  • - Oxfordshire: Carers Oxfordshire sorts assessments and rest (carersoxfordshire.org.uk).
  • - Northamptonshire: Northamptonshire Carers gives training and chats (northamptonshire-carers.org).
  • - Gloucestershire: Gloucestershire Carers Hub links you to help (northamptonshire-carers.org).
  • - Buckinghamshire: Carers Bucks does events and tips (carersbucks.org).

Conclusion

Unpaid carers are absolute legends, but you’ve got to look after yourself too. Try one tip—like a quick sit-down—and check a local charity for backup. Need more?  our Urgent Support Link Service  has options to ease the strain.

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